Sharara Sizing for Kids & Moms: Mother-Daughter Matching Guide
If you're planning a mother-daughter look for a wedding, mehendi, or festive get-together, Sharara sizing for kids & moms is the one detail that makes the outfit feel polished and comfortable. In this guide you'll get practical measurement tips, matching-style ideas, and easy alteration tricks so both of you look coordinated without compromising fit or movement.
Whether you're shopping online or working with a tailor, here's the trick: fit matters more than match. Nail the sizing first, then pair colors, embroidery levels, and accessories to create a cohesive duo look that photographs beautifully and lasts all day.
Why proper sharara sizing matters (and what to avoid)
A sharara's dramatic flare looks stunning — but it also amplifies fit issues. A too-snug waist, too-long hem, or heavy fabric can ruin both comfort and the silhouette. For kids, improper sizing becomes a safety or mobility issue; for moms, it's a comfort and confidence issue.
- Restricted movement (especially for kids playing).
- Tripping hazard from hems that are too long.
- Fabric bunching or gaping at the waist or bodice.
- Embellishment strain on seams when the fit is wrong.
Big takeaway: prioritize movement and correct measurements over exact pattern match. Matching can be achieved with color, motifs, or dupatta styling rather than identical cuts.
How to measure: a step-by-step sizing checklist (practical)
Follow these measurement steps every time you buy or tailor a sharara — for both moms and girls. These are three practical, actionable steps you can use immediately.
Tools you'll need
- Flexible tape measure.
- A few old garments that fit well.
- Notebook to record measurements.
Measure the waist and hips
Waist (natural waist): Find the narrowest part of the torso (usually above the belly button). Wrap tape comfortably — not tight. Note in cm/inches.
Hip: Measure the fullest part of the hips and buttocks while standing with feet together.
Measure the length
Sharara length: For sharara bottoms, measure from the top of the waistband (where the sharara will sit) down to the desired hem—usually mid-calf to ankle for adults; for kids, aim for just above the ankle so they can run and play.
Kurta/kameez top length: From the highest shoulder point (near the base of the neck) to the desired hem.
Chest and shoulder (for the top)
Chest: Measure around the fullest part of the chest/bust, keeping the tape parallel to the ground.
Shoulder width: From the tip of one shoulder to the tip of the other — helps with sleeve placement.
Sleeve length and armhole
Measure from shoulder tip to wrist for full sleeves; for three-quarter sleeves, measure to mid-forearm.
For kids, leave ~2–3 cm extra in sleeve and armhole for growth and movement.
Rise and crotch depth for kids
For comfortable sitting and playing, measure the front rise (from top of waistband down through the crotch to the back waistband). For kids, add ease.
Sizing variations by sharara style (what to choose for mom & child)
Shararas come in many silhouettes — wide-flared, gathered, paneled, or palazzo-style. Choose a style that suits movement and event formality.
Matching outfit ideas: color, motifs, and levels of embellishment
You don't have to be identical to match. Here are matching strategies by event type:
Wedding & formal events
Mom: Rich, heavy embroidered sharara in deep jewel color.
Daughter: Lighter shade of the same color family with a simple embroidered border or embroidered yoke.
Why it works: Keeps the duo cohesive without overwhelming the child.
Mehendi & haldi
Mom: Comfortable cotton-silk sharara with block prints.
Daughter: Same print on a shorter kurta with palazzo sharara.
Tip: Use yellow/green palettes and breathable fabrics for haldi.
Festivals & pujas
Mom & daughter: Matching print motifs (floral or paisley) with different base colors — e.g., mom in maroon, child in blush with identical border embroidery.
Casual family events
Mom: Plain sharara with embellished dupatta.
Daughter: Matching dupatta tie or hair accessory — low key but coordinated.
Fabric choices & how they affect sizing and fit
Fabric determines drape, weight, and how much ease you should add.
Alterations & tailoring tips — make the fit perfect
Here are three step-by-step tailoring tips you can give to your tailor or do yourself when learning:
Tailoring Tip 1: The fix for a high-waist mismatch
- Put on the sharara and mark where you want the waistband to sit (wear the shoes you'll actually wear).
- Remove and tell the tailor to either drop or raise the waistband by that marked amount.
- If the waistband is too tight, request an elasticized back or a close-fitting side zip + 2 cm extra seam allowance.
Tailoring Tip 2: Hemming for kids (avoid tripping)
- Have the child stand straight wearing the shoes to be worn at the event.
- Measure desired hem (ideally above the ankle).
- Ask your tailor to finish the hem with a 1.5–2 cm fold and try-on, then finish permanently.
Tailoring Tip 3: Adjusting flare without losing style
- If a sharara's flare is too wide for a child, reduce panel widths but keep the decorative border intact.
- Alternatively, switch to lighter fabric panels to keep volume visually without weight.
- Recorded measurements (waist, hip, sharara length, chest).
- Photos of how you want it to sit (front and side).
- Notes on activity level (e.g., child will play/dance).
How to balance size-matching vs age-appropriate styling (real-world example)
Case study (hypothetical): Priya (mother, 34) and Anika (daughter, 6) are attending a cousin's wedding. Priya wants a heavy hand-embroidered ivory sharara; Anika wants to feel like mom but be able to play.
Solution:
- Priya chooses a full-flare embroidered sharara in ivory with a heavy dupatta.
- Anika gets a palazzo-style sharara in the same ivory fabric but with floral embroidered motifs only on the hem and a light, tulle dupatta trimmed in the same embroidery.
- Tailoring: Anika's sharara sits higher at the waist (to allow movement) and is 4 cm above the ankle; sleeves are three-quarter for comfort.
Result: They're visually coordinated (fabric & motifs) but functionally different — mom's garment delivers drama; the child's set delivers mobility.
Accessories & finishing touches to sell the match
Small consistent details make outfits read as a pair:
Shopping online vs. local tailor: pro & cons
Online shopping
Pros: Huge variety, easier to match fabrics quickly, returns in some stores.
Cons: Sizing varies by brand; photos don't reveal drape fully.
Local tailor
Pros: Custom fit, fabric sampling, immediate alteration, local artisans can do matching motifs.
Cons: May be pricier for handwork; require more planning.
Quick reminders & sizing cheat sheet
- Kids: Aim for 2–4 cm extra ease in length and seams; keep hems above the ankle.
- Moms: Prioritize waist comfort and allow mobility — 2–3 cm ease at waist and bust.
- Same fabric = easier match: If budget allows, use same fabric family and play with embroidery levels.
- Try-on rule: Always try on with shoes and undergarments you plan to wear on the day.
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Finding the perfect duo sharara look is part measurement, part styling, and a little tailoring magic. Start with accurate measurements (especially for kids), choose fabrics that suit the event and activity, and use smart matching — shared motifs, dupatta borders, or accessory cues — to create cohesive mother-daughter outfits.
If you want help with measurements or a customized matching plan, book a 15-minute styling checklist consultation with us.
Shop NowFAQs
FAQ 1: How often should I re-measure my child for sharara sizing?
Re-measure every 3–6 months for toddlers and every 6–12 months for older children, or before any planned event.
FAQ 2: Can a child wear the exact same sharara style as a mom?
Technically yes, but it's safer and more comfortable to adapt the cut (e.g., palazzo-style for kids) while keeping the same fabric and motifs.
FAQ 3: What fabric is best for a hot-weather event?
Lightweight cotton, cotton-silk blends, and breathable georgette are best for Indian summers.
FAQ 4: How much extra ease should I add to sharara pants for kids?
Add about 3–5 cm to waist and hips and 2–4 cm to length depending on the child's activity level.
FAQ 5: Is it better to buy ready-made or tailor a sharara for matching outfits?
For a perfect match and fit, tailoring is best; for budget or quick needs, choose reputable ready-made brands and check size guides.
